Evolution and Letting Go

The last couple of days I have been going through some spiritual evolution and aligning myself with my higher self and/or purpose. In the mist of doing this, I noticed that I had to let go of certain friends  who do not match my sense of growth. At first, I felt really bad about doing this, but now I understand it's apart of the plan.

I have come to conclusion that 'letting go' is part of the purpose. We do not have to continue entertaining people who are no longer healthy for us and do not agree with our upgraded views and visions. Now I'm not referring to the people who do not understand your evolution and may not accept it through ignorance. That's okay and can be changed. I am referring to the people who intentionally try to created disharmony in your growth consciously or subconsciously due to the fact that they are mischievously wishing you bad luck/energy.

These friends can be dangerous because while they smile in your face, they really desire to see you fail. We all have these people in our life in one way or another and I noticed their intentions are usually rooted incompetition, envy, and perhaps jealousy. At first, I would get upset and try to confront their intentions, but now I realize it's much more noble and wiser to keep following your path or growth while not giving these people what they want- confrontation and/or attention.

If we were to really look at these people their competition nature is usually rooted in their inner insecurity that causes them to react this way. Although their insecurity is targeted at us emotionally, we can not resolve their issues for them and we can't change or heal them. We can only control ourselves and we should focus more on not fueling their anger with fire (negative emotions). So although we see their intentions for what it is, it's better to take the higher road and disarm them by not reacting and if necessary 'letting go' of these people from our lives.

By Makalesi Rodan

Comments

[David Hathor]

Very True. Your writing always seem to touch my soul personally. Thanks. I needed to hear this.

[relrealz]

nuthin but the truth

[TL]

i needed to hear this as well.. i was feeling kinda bad about some friendships i lost in the past few months.. now i understand why things ended the way they did... thank you

[Makalesi]

Thanks for reading that article everyone. And your welcome David and TL... Always remember evolving is all about cleansing, releasing and redefining energy. It's hard sometime to 'let go' of people, belief systems, and energy that no longer fits and it's can be a lonely journey at times. But trust in the process that you will magnetically attract energy that's more aligned with your higher purpose. <3

Mak

[Esrene]

Thank you for posting Makalesi, it is very true what you say. Many ppl may not realise just yet how much it relates to their lives, as I've noticed from past experiences that ppl would rather not know when someone who is supposed to support them actually wants the worse for them. So it does take a lot of strength sometimes to let those ppl go especially if you have still not come to terms with their negative emotions towards you. The high road is definitely the way to go :)